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10 Things You Should Know About Mr. DANTE ARBOLEDA.


           I found this section of my favorite Bianca Gonzalez in PhilStar where she basically reveals the top ten things about famous people. And since that gave me an idea on what to write next, I thought of revealing top ten things about the people that I love. ;)
            So let's have Sir Dante Catequista Arboleda as my first victim. I thought of asking permission but it wouldn't be a surprise anymore Let's see how well I know him. 

#10    He's the only teacher who made Me and Verwin cry.

                    T'was during our junior year in High School when he handled our class as our adviser for the school year. There's this one time when he got mad on us for lacking discipline and for not being united as a group during our cheerdance practices. He punished us by becoming so strict where none of us, guilty or not, was exempted. I didn't buy it at first 'coz I know him. I knew that all his strictness and angry expressions were just for the show. But then again, even if I knew what was happening, I got eventually carried away with the whole drama thing. He was just really a good actor. Haha! 
                      One day, he reprimanded us with all our bad habits. He told us that we're all gonna fail his subjects. And worst, we won't be joining the Intramurals anymore. Then he asked us one by one about our opinions. As embarrassing as it was, when he asked me, I didn't had the chance to blurt a word. My tears just fell down with a shaking voice, disabling me to say what I want to say. He didn't wait for my answer. He proceeded directly to Verwin. He asked him the same question. And to my surprise,  tears also rolled down to Verwin's face. It was the first time that I saw him crying. We've been classmates since second grade but I never saw him become that emotional, not even during the times when my classmates laugh at him for being fat. IT WAS ONLY SIR DANTE WHO MADE US SHOW OUR WEAK AND EMOTIONAL SIDES. Looking back, I can't believe that I really cried because of the threat on my grades! :))

#9        He's a really SKEPTICAL PERSON.
                       
                        He told us that he makes "banlaw" of his clothes 4-5 times before hanging them. He can't live in a dirty environment... that's why he always scolds us whenever he enters the room dirty. We should have our general cleaning at least every week. He assigns those who will bring boxes of floor wax and rugs. And oh! Even if you bring those, you're still not free from doing the classroom chores. You have to help if you want a merit of 10 points on your recitation. Unlike other teachers, he'll be staying during the general cleaning sessions to supervise us and to oversee who's working or not. He's even helping in carrying the chairs and tables. Until he says that it's enough, no one's allowed to stop cleaning and to go home.
                       I admit that all those general cleaning activities made me sick. I didn't get why we all have to clean every week while there are cleaners assigned for each day. But eventually, as our general cleaning continued, we received compliments each week. They said that our room was neat and clean. Cleaning the room together had fused the bond in our batch more tightly. It's not only us, the students, who built closeness but also with Sir Dante.


#8          He loves eating... A LOT! :P

                         Our morning recess was supposed to be 10:15am, that’s after his 2-hour Chemistry/Physics subject. But that schedule wasn't followed anymore ever since Sir Dante started to not eat his breakfast anymore. It was actually good news to us because we can eat earlier! Because of this, we take our morning merienda as early as 8:00 or 9:00. But as for Sir Dante, it's not just a merienda. He buys a really heavy meal! Two cups of rice, four to five sticks of barbecue, a bottle of soda and some sweets. We were really happy back then because most of the days, we are taking our supposed to be 15-minute break for 30-45 minutes! Haha! Our or my technique was to talk and talk to him while he was eating. He loves sharing his childhood adventures, that's why he always forgets that the 15-minute break was over. So chada! Recess time - EXTENDED!   
                         During lunch break, he orders the same amount of foods again. And on the afternoon, another round for heavy meals!  Back then, others envy him for not gaining weight. 

#7           He's once a PLAYER.

                         I don't think Sir Dante would get mad if I reveal that he was once a player. Player in a way that he's gotten two girlfriends at the same time without them knowing! Hahaha! Bad boy. But hey, that was during his college years. I know he's already a faithful and a good boy now. ;)


#6           He doesn't know how to play Basketball

                     Honestly, I'm not really sure about this. I could only say that he doesn't know how to play basketball because I never saw him. He did become a referee during the Intramurals, though. I think he just knows the rules. But the gameplay? I doubt. Hmmm... Sir Dante should confirm this. :))

#5           VERSATILE ;)

                          He absolutely knows a little bit of everything. Ask him to dance, he can. He can even choreograph for you. Ask him to sing, he'll be willing. I would never forget his favorite song, THIS I PROMISE YOU. Ask him to be a part of your class's short film, he will join without a lot of questions…even if he would look stupid in it. Request him to be a speaker for this and that, he can also do that!
                          That's how talented my sir Dante is. He's such a jack of all trades! And one good thing about him is that, he's not afraid to share his knowledge and skills. He's not selfish. He will even encourage you to try and do your best.


#4           He Can’t LIVE WITH BOREDOM   
                         
                         This is one reason why I and Sir Dante have clicked. He’s a very adventurous person. He likes doing great stuffs such as gardening, nature-hopping, anything that could kill boredom. He’s not into procrastination – on this matter, we’re kind’a not clicking. He wants to make use most of his time. Even though he’s already a smart teacher, he still reads books every night and does researches so he can have something to share in class the next morning.
                          

#3           ANG ALAMAT NI DANTE ARBOLEDA

                        Haha! I can’t think of a better line for Sir Dante’s love on sharing his life stories. That’s the reason why we love his class. THERE’S NO DULL AND LOWSY MOMENTS WHENEVER HE STARTS SPEAKING. If you would think of it, he discussed Biology, Chemistry, Physics and even Math! But all of them turned out to be my favorite subjects back in high school! I hated Science when I was in elementary. But with Sir Dante’s approach on teaching his uninterested students, I came to love the subject. I became really interested and that interest still occurs to me whenever I encounter such topics.
                     ALAMAT NI DANTE ARBOLEDA because he is very good in relating each topic to his life stories. Now sorry ‘coz my memory sucks. I can’t tell you precisely the stories that he shared. All I could remember is that I got teary eyes laughing on his life stories, got amazed of how clever he was when he was on his younger years and got inspired of his humble beginnings. I always look forward to his punchlines and stories.


#2                He’s INCREDIBLY AN OUTSPOKEN PERSON

                             NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE OR WHAT YOUR POSITION COULD BE, AS LONG AS YOU MESSN WITH MR. ARBOLEDA’S RIGHT, HMMM… DON’T EXPECT SILENCE.
                             As scary as it sounds, this is true. It’s from Sir Dante where I learned to speak up my mind. He hates butting in to conversations however; he knows when he should speak for his right to explain. As what I’ve observed, he always has reasons for everything that he does. So the moment that one would question what he’s doing and misinterprets it, without a second thought, he will explain it to you in a manner that will still show respect to the person accusing him. He’s not afraid of losing his job. He just knows where his stand is.


#1     Too Young to be Old

          And finally, we’re down to the last one. Tell me, by looking at his pictures, how old do you think he is? Be honest.
  
          Let me guess… you think that he’s just between 25-27 right? Or younger than that?

          (Dear Sir, I’m sorry to expose your real age.)

           The truth is he’s already 30 years of age. And he’ll be celebrating his 31st birthday this year! I know you’re also lured by his young face and fashionista style like everyone else. Who would have thought that his age is already close from getting kick out of the calendar? Peace!!! Well that’s life. He’s blessed to have a young face. He doesn’t need the heart Snow White or the Mirror Mirror on the Wall to stop his wrinkles and to keep him young. Because of his young face, he’s comfortable hanging out with his students because everyone would think that he’s just one of us.
              
             I actually worry for the time when I will look older than him. Oh no!
                            




  So that’s it! I’m done sharing the top ten things (that I know) about Dante Arboleda. I apologize for becoming my first victim. This just shows how I appreciate all the lessons that I’ve learned from one of my favorite teachers. Without him becoming so strict about deadlines and projects, I wouldn’t have a little know-how of how college is. FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART, THANK YOU MR. DANTE CATEQUISTA ARBOLEDA. J               

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GOODBYE ACCOUNTANCY, HELLO NEW LIFE! :)

"I'm not one of the best students in our class when it comes to accounting..." (I SUCK AT IT ACTUALLY...HAHA)

The mock interview had just made me realize the things that I really wanted to do. Despite the bad news that came to me these past days, I learned to cope up with the dramas and stress of being an accountancy student... or should I say a former accountancy student? :-D

I'd been struggling to survive this course for 3 years now... But I guess, my mind can't bear it anymore. My heart isn't that supportive since the very beginning. I'd been trying to love the subject, but it doesn't love me back, only few sunk in. I don't even know if I deserve to be a CPA. I enrolled in this course not because I was forced to, but because I just can't think of anything better during that time. I actually wanted to enroll to an ECE degree or be a MassCom student. I didn't go for the former 'coz it's a five-year course. And I don't want to stay in school that long. I'm aware of my family's financial status back then. And knowing that college is expensive, I don't want to be a burden for that long. I didn't choose MassCom either. I told myself, if I'm taking that course, I should graduate in a university like Ateneo or UP. It's not that I'm belittling my school's MassCom program, but honestly speaking, we all know that  multimedia companies would prefer graduates from those schools mentioned. Moreover, I'm aware that the employment for that degree is not in demand here in GenSan. It's a big risk, I know.


BASIC ACCOUNTING (1ST YEAR)

So there, I enrolled to a BS-Accountancy degree. Honestly, I didn't have any idea of what accounting is all about. Yes, I've heard that it's more on solving. I love Math, and maybe that's one of the reasons why I took a very strange course. I hadn't thought that I'm entering HELL that time.

I didn't even had a basic accounting subject during my high school! I was even impressed of my classmates during my 1st year because they were very good in journal entries, balancing T-accounts and etc. Some of them even received a 1.0 grade during the midterms. But then I found out that they had that kind of subject when they were in high school. I'd only met ASSETS, LIABILITIES AND OWNER'S EQUITY when I stepped in to college. Loser eh?

FIRST TEARS...

I could still remember the first time that I cried for a grade! haha! I got 2.0 as my Basic Accounting midterm grade. Humbly speaking, I never experienced getting a grade below 88 when I was in high school. And that was the first time I got an 80! I mean, "what the hell happened to me?!!!" It's also my first time to get zero on a quiz! I felt so useless and dumb. Even from that point in time, I already felt discouragements, dissatisfaction of my performance, and loss of interest. I'd already expected to FAIL THE SUBJECT.

From elementary to high school, I'd been the happy-go-lucky type. I study a night before the exam and quiz. Reading textbooks wasn't my hobby. That's why my books still look like new until now. All I did back then was to listen whenever the teacher was in front and to participate. I didn't give so much time studying. But I was just lucky and blessed enough to still get outstanding scores during exams and quizzes. But these things turned oppositely when I got in to college...

I'd started reading my textbook...

I changed my habits. I'd become completely away from watching the news. I learned to lock myself in the room and read and read. Even though I can't fully understand what I was reading. I wondered why I can't... I only maintained my scholarship for another semester when I got six mistakes during our midterm exam. My drive to get a grade higher than 80 was to the extent. Though it wasn't enough for me during that time.


PARTNERSHIP & CORPORATION (1st Year - 2nd Sem)

Good news! I passed my major subject! I got 1.75! That means, I got into the Dean's list!

The compliment that our Program Head, Ms. Joanne Java,CPA, is still fresh in my mind until now. It was the enrollment period for the 2nd semester. She was there to check on our course catalogs and see our grades. And when it was my turn, I felt really nervous. I get butterflies on my stomach whenever I see her. She has the same nose and that spanky personality as my mommy, that's why I was that nervous when she's at sight. hehe...

"Ang gaganda ng grades mo... ipagpatuloy mo yan ha? Para mag-top ka sa board exam," she said. (BOOM!)

Hooh! I tell you, those are the sweetest and most pressuring words I've heard from her!

 Sadly, I disappointed her. o_0

So... new semester. New set of classmates. I got qualified to be in the 1st section, the section where the top 10 students in the last departmental exam were also in. Was that a boon or a bane? It was flattering of course to be their classmate, but at the same time, I have to double my effort 'coz my teachers would surely give my section more challenging and harder activities knowing that the top 10 best students were in our class! And I was right. Really right! LEVELED-UP TORTURE.


FINANCIAL ACCOUNTING 1 & 2 (2ND Year)

Bad news! I lost my scholarship and was removed from the Dean's list! Good news, I passed the subject.

Only 100 students remained in the accountancy program from the original 200 students. We're down to only two sections from the original four. Lucky me, 'coz I still survived!

Financial Accounting 1 - ASSETS. 


How the hell is the Bank reconciliation process?! I spent a whole Saturday in school figuring out how to balance the cash in the books and in the bank. I solved that assignment for two and a half days but still get the wrong answer. haha! Relate?

Fin 1 was way worse than my previous accounting subjects. It's the HELLEST AMONG ALL THE HELLS. I even asked for the help of my neighbor since he is an accountant. Quizzes are longer and more difficult...and by the way, it's per chapter! Out of the 10+ quizzes that we took, I only passed one quiz. I only passed the quiz about CASH &CASH EQUIVALENTS. I got 82 over 100. One ironic thing about it was, I was announced to have the highest score on that quiz. My classmates wowed. I felt happy and flattered of course. It's my first time! But when ate Liezl (my classmate too) had her paper re-checked, it was found out that she got 89 points. Therefore, she's the highest. I didn't mind it. It did not even occur to me that I was the highest. I was just happy that finally, I scored high!

That only happened once though. My succeeding quiz results were depressing. I should thank my ever-cooperative health. I got a low score during our midterm departmental exam. I only received a 66 point something during midterms.  I thought that I could get higher and passing scores from our quizzes during the finals. But I didn't. From then on, I prepared myself. I prepared my family. I told them sorry. If I fail, I would shift to engineering even if it would lead me back to zero. At least, I'm certain that I'll be liking it fully.

I went to school alone. Holding up the remaining courage that I still have. I was prepared to hear the 2.75 from Ma'am Java.

"Ma'am... magtanong lang po ako ng grade," I said with loud and fast heartbeats. I felt like I was facing my judgment day!

She browsed her computer to find my grade...

"hmmm... Krisffer. 70, sirado."

My eyes opened widely and I felt like I was gonna jump right in front of her, inside the Dean's office. Good thing I'm good at hiding my emotions!

"Atik ma'am?!," I exclaimed.

"Ayaw mo?," she asked with a smile and a raised eyebrow.

"Hindi ma'am ui! Gusto! Salamat ma'am!"

I got out from that office with wide grin and teary eyes. I was really prepared for my downfall but I was surprised to hear the opposite. I was very THANKFUL. The whole Saturday that I'd spent inside the library - which by the way was my first time - was worth it.  My efforts were acknowledged by God. He helped me get through it.


FINANCIAL ACCOUNTING 2 - LIABILITIES & O.E.     -2.50
COST ACCOUNTING                                                           -2.50
FINANCIAL ACCOUNTING 3                                             -2.50
MANAGEMENT ADVISORY AND CONSULTANCY     -2.50


>> CALL THESE GRADES AS "MISTRESS"... or in Tagalog, KABIT! haha




ADVANCED ACCOUNTING 1&2 (3rd Year)


I wanted to pass the subject... I just don't have the drive. I sometimes ask myself, do I really want this?


I found out that I got the lowest score in the exam. Wow! I computed my semestral grade, and boom! I FAILED.

I've already seen it coming, but I didn't know that it's that painful. *drama!

These past days, I've been out of my mind. I lost the 10% focus that I have for my major subject. I forgot my goal. I lost the interest. On a Saturday night, the very friendly SOCOTECO scheduled the 10-hour brownout in our area. We had no emergency lights... I tried using my phone's flashlight but it only gave me headaches. I was worried of my dry eye condition, so I opted to just sleep...

69.12...


That's my semestral grade. Sadly, I didn't reach the cutoff grade this time. This has been what I'm waiting for. At first, it was absolutely hard to accept the fact that after all the efforts of trying to be good at something I'm not really in line with, I would just fail at the point where I'm just a year away from surviving it. SAKIT DIAY BAYA. OJT NA OH! haha!

But as a lot of people comforted me, I felt better. I started ACCEPTING IT. I'm not going to be an accountancy student anymore, unless I would retake the subject. I don't want to extend for another year. You mean another year of burden? Another year of struggle without the people I used to be with? Another year of expenses? I don't think I can still fight anymore. *CHARMOS!

But that's actually the fact. If you ask my closest friends, they advised me to retake the subject. I thank my parents on the other hand for letting me decide for myself. They know the difficulty that I'd been through. "Kung saan ang tingin mong gusto mo, dun ka. Kung gusto mong mag-shift sa course na gusto mo, gawin mo," my mommy said.

I got torn between the will of not giving up for the BSA degree then take the chance of extending another year in school and shifting to a less pressure degree which can still hand me my diploma on March 2013, BSAT. It's been days after I found out my final grade and still I hadn't decided yet. So I went to seek for the advice of the person who might know the best, our Program Head, Ms. Java.



Ms. Java's advice


The first time I went to her office, she advised me to shift. As for her observation, she told me that I was very relax... passive. I don't have the attitude of becoming a CPA. I don't oppose her. She's very right. I also see that. As I've said, I don't have the drive. It's like I'm just attending my major subject because it's a requirement and nothing more.

"There's no question about your intelligence, but there's a problem with your attitude..."

MAY TAMA KAAAA MA'AM!!!! hehe

From that point, I felt shame. Shame because I was guilty. Her advice of me shifting to BSAT was a little complicated during that time, as I have to retake a subject that I've already earned. It was a long story actually. I thought, if that's the case, maybe I should just stick to my BSA course. I would extend for another year. I don't want to but I have no choice.

Everything was set and decided on. I honestly felt so little every time I hear my classmates talking about their OJT stories. I don't know if they had observed but every time they bring up the topic, I kept myself busy and pretended like I was not in the room. But if they didn't notice that, now they know. hehe

I've already prepared myself for an unoccupied summer this year. My classmates will be busy and I will be at home idle. I started applying again for online jobs to keep me busy. But days later, I received a text from Jane telling me to go to Ma'am Java ASAP. I just finished doing the laundry that afternoon and was about to sleep. But as soon as I read the text, I jumped off the bed and took a bath.

I knew that Ma'am Java called me for a confirmation. I was almost there. I had almost told her that I'm retaking. But before I could say it, she explained to me the changes if I shift to BSAT or go under probation.  I was surprise to find out that if I would go under probation, I wouldn't have to wait for next year to go on my OJT program. I can have it this year... but still I would be extending a year for the 4 units that I can't get this coming AY 2012-2013. If I choose to shift to BSAT, I would not retake the Peachtree subject. To make it short, the complications are solved. I can graduate still on March 2013 and have my OJT this summer. Big thanks to our Program head for finding means to make our decisions easier to bear. I REALLY HAD APPRECIATED IT. :)

I almost asked ma'am if she's kidding me! But of course, I can't and I won't dare. She explained to me the advantages if I would just shift and won't risk another year of time and money for an accountancy degree which in the first place is not my passion. "There is more to life than becoming a CPA," she said.

I agree. Maybe that's the reason why I wasn't motivated to do my best during the examination week. No matter how I see my classmates striving their hardest to study for the departmental exam, it still did not move me. I felt like I'm looking for something that was not even there.

So from the moment I went out her door again, I finally got my head straight. I finally had my decision. I don't want to be a CPA. It isn't my dream. I can't live with backroom jobs. I SUCK AT ACCOUNTING. And even if I take the board exam, I will have doubts about myself. This ain't for me. Oh my... I was such a LATE BLOOMER to realize these things just now.

WHAT I WANT TO BE...


So I belong to the BSAT-4 now. I am not ashamed of that. After all, it's my decision. Maybe becoming a CPA would give you a higher salary and pride, but I guess, that's not at all what I'm after for. I plan to take an MBA degree, in God's time. And if my finances would permit me, I would enter a crash course for films or journalism, maybe. I know that my heart belongs there.  It's just not possible at the moment.

This is my journey... my 3 years in accountancy had taught me a lot of things which I would treasure for all of my life. This is not the end of my path to reaching my dreams... it's just the beginning. I pray that God would help me learn from my mistakes and that He would guide me through all my ups and downs in life.

GOODBYE ACCOUNTANCY, HELLO NEW LIFE! :)














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        Look at how amazing it is to realize that I'd been actually recognizing the people who had made a great impact in my life every year since 2009. I only got this idea from my favorite, Bianca Gonzalez, while reading her blog 3 years ago. And with that, I got motivated to write my own as well. Even if this thing won't reach a lot of people's knowledge, at least, I will be able to share the best persons I had during each year. The only question now is, who are they? Were they still the same people? Who remained? Who left? And who entered into the picture?
          But guys, please don't get me wrong. It doesn't mean that I never acknowledge persons who have made me happy other than this list of people that I'm going to boast. Of course, I do value my moments with others as well. It's just that, there are really some who would create a big mark on your heart and mind that even you can't believe how they things have gone so fast.

          So ehem! Before I could make my introduction long (again), LET ME PROUDLY INTRODUCE TO YOU THE PEOPLE OF MY YEAR 2011!


  • BABYLYN SALAZAR (MAMA)
         I could remember how freakin' scared I was when she went near to me for a hug when I was just about 3 years old. She came home from abroad with her very fair complexion and big dark eyes! Everyone was telling me not to be scared because she's not a  "MUMU" like I'd been thinking of during that time. She's not a white lady according to them. But I wasn't convinced. I had this phobia of white women. I thought of them as the antagonists and ghosts. And yeah... I believed that Mama was one of them. 
          Mama and I didn't have the best memories together back when I was a child. I never actually gave her my full affection for I'd always thought that my only mother is "mommy" (my maternal granny who raised me since 1). Considering that I'm Mama's only daughter, that didn't make us closer back then. 
           But things changed after my younger brother was diagnosed to have a Rheumatic Heart Disease. I saw how Mama did her best to raise a fund for my brother's operation which cost about over 1Million! Mama worked hard and had eaten her pride to ask every person whom she think could give a donation for my bro's hospitalization. We were never the rich family, and this problem had made it more difficult for my parents to think about where on Earth will they get that big amount of money. 
             Anyway, before I could get over-dramatic, I put Mama on the list because I've seen how persevere and courageous she is on searching for a source of income. She registered herself into every networking business being introduced to her. She sells cosmetics, Tupperwares, clothes, shoes, herbal products, dishwashing soaps, name it! She has every brochure! And she doesn't mind if she does a house-to-house marketing if that's the only way to earn more money from the little commission she can get on every item sold. Then after a long day of doing business, when she comes home, her responsibility as a mother inside the house is not taken for granted. She cooks, irons clothes, cleans the house and wash clothes!
             I know how tired she is on everything that she's doing. But still, she never fails to ask me if I need something. And even if I don't ask her anything, she would not mind getting me things from the products that she sells just for her to give me something. If that's her way of creating a rapport and tying the knots tighter between us, then she wins. She already got me. Whenever I hear thrash talks about her, I begin to feel bad and angry - which I never did before not because I didn't love her and I believed that she's like that, but it's because I just never cared. But now, if I could only lock my eardrums for awhile to avoid getting mad, I would. THANK GOD I INHERITED MAMA'S LEVEL OF PATIENCE.
            I love the thought that even if she doesn't have money at times when I ask for it, she would rather borrow some from her collections and give it to me so I could still go to school. That's a lot of sacrifice from her and I appreciate it. I wish that someday I could also be expressive on how thankful I am for all the love and care that she gave me despite the distance and 20 years of not staying under the same roof for a long time.

I LOVE YOU MAMA! :)


             First and foremost, they are not twins, aren't they? haha! Whoever is Caryl or Clarice there, that's for you to find out.
             I remember how I described this two a year ago when I included them as people of my yer 2010. That's right! They retained the spot! They remained to be influential and to be one of the best friends I ever have during my college years.
             As I've said a year ago, both of them are so caring. I'm like having another set of 2 moms! Haha! They're both sweet, fun to be with, and most of all, they're both kuripot. Haha! We maybe grown-ups to act like kids but that's how our bonding differentiate us from others. We laugh to death. Sing and dance in accordance to the beat of the current song. Eat while the class is going on. Play while the teacher's discussing. And WE DON'T CARE. We can be silly as much as we want ourselves to be!

             Caryl, being the hopeless romantic, shares things about her love life in which I appreciate because I take it as a compliment. For me, it means that she trusts me. And so do I. What I love about her is how she values friendship. How she values her friends. She wouldn't mind waking up early just to make a sandwich and bring it to any of her friends. What a motherly attitude right? haha! But I adore her for that. She's the sweetest friend ever! And FYI, she's also my accomplice on some meany-eenie-don't-tell-our-moms situations.

                Clarice, on the other hand, is my partner in "yabagan" sing alongs. If you want rain, just tell us. And it will be our pleasure to sing for you! You don't need to pay. Letting us sing is already something that would boost our confidence. haha! One thing that I love about Waka, she doesn't care if others would think that she's a lesbian or what. That's what makes her whole personality. So what? Who cares what they think? She doesn't GIVE A DAMN!!!! haha...I maybe just being sarcastic, but I'm 75% certain that Waka also thinks that way.
            We may not see and be with each other as often as before, but I wanna tell them how I value our friendship and how I love them as my friends.

I LOVE YOU MUCH ICE AND WAKA!  :)





                  This is the day that she'd been waiting for! You have no idea how she complained and questioned me about not making her a part of  my 2010 People of the Year list! haha! Well, the reason is that, we were not too close a year ago. So I thought, if things between our friendship would continue to go well, she we would definitely be included in my 2011 People of the Year. And that's it! Since January, she's been a good company during Mcdonald's food trips. Like Jane, she's also a certified BLABBER. BUT I THINK SHE'S WORST. haha! This folk is DEFINITELY A GENIUS. SPONTANEOUS. WITTY. CLEVER. HAPPY-GO-LUCKY. 
                   She's one of the persons who has the ability to shift one topic to another in as fast as a millionth seconds! You'll only go crazy chasing her thoughts. If you won't listen for few seconds, you'll find yourself lost with what she's currently talking about! It's a good thing that talking to her doesn't require a lot of energy. JUST LET HER DO ALL THE TALKING AND YOU WILL STILL HAVE FUN. 

                      Honestly, others think that she's annoying and noisy. AND THEY'RE RIGHT! haha! But that's what I love about her. Your mood will absolutely be influenced by her presence. If you'll see her silent and not laughing, you would think that something's wrong with her. That's why, you have no choice but to just want her blurting out the words in her mind than seeing her kill the crowd with silence. 
                I actually miss this noisy creature. I remember how she helped me forget about my unfortunate experiences. The office got a little boring without her. I thank her for all the calls that she gave me. It made me feel important and special. Naks! THERE'S NO WAY THAT YOU CAN'T HELP YOURSELF FROM LAUGHING WHEN YOU TALK TO HER. I WISH OUR MOMENTS WOULD STILL HAVE NEXT TIMES.

I LOVE YOU NA LANG A! HAHA KIDDING!

I LOVE YOU JUD BITAW! ;P

                
                 Meet Kaye (the second person from the left), the most modest and most Maria Clara girl I’d ever met. If you’ll talk to her, you will feel serenity and peace of mind. Her calm mood and presence would soothe the agony that you are currently feeling. Ask her for advices; she will give them to you with open arms. There’s this one time when I didn’t know what to do and I didn’t had any courage to tell what I’m going through with any of my close friends until I saw Kaye. I shared to her my problem and after our conversation, I suddenly felt the assurance that everything will be alright. She never failed me when she said that she’s gonna help me. From then on, I realize how blessed I am to have a friend like her. One piece of advice my friends, if you think you can’t handle it anymore, find a person like Kaye whom you can talk to and who will be ready to listen to you.

                That's Vergie, - the first girl from the left - the least person whom I thought could jive with my crazy imaginations! I never expected her to be a fun-to-be-with person. She’s the “suplada” type according to my first impression of her. But when I get to be with her more often, I found out how amazing this girl could be (like me! haha)… she’s outspoken, God-fearing like every one of us, and crazy. I think she’s also the kind of person whom you can be comfortable sharing your feelings and problems. Well, uhh... I'm on the process of finding that our. She’s a descendant of Kaye when it comes to these things. And hey, here’s one talent of Vergie which I discovered just few days ago, ask her to talk to you like Shuvaker (Indian accent) and you will be stunned when you hear her starting to showcase her special talent. LOL!

                    And the last but not the least, meet Dana (who was seated next to me) – the kikay and sassy girl of the group. I describe her as the rock rebelle kind. Melancholic yet she knows what she wants and what she’s not. That’s what I like about her. She’s not afraid to explore and learn from her mistakes. She’s certain of her decisions and not afraid of facing the consequences of her own actions. She’s bold, fun-seeker and a reliable friend. Talk to her when she’s drunk, and you’ll find out how deep she is, how hopeless romantic and how strong she could be. Really she is the baby of the group who still needs some guidance. But hey, SHE’S TOUGH. J



                If you don't know her that much, you'll probably be intimidated of her strong and frank personality notwithstanding her genuinely-inspired topics that even I, can't most of the time, ride on. Her facial expressions will always make you think that she's mad or that the world has fallen apart for her. Uhmm... Just bare with her... that's just her DEFAULT LOOK. If you'll see her wrinkling her eyebrows to the extent that those two becomes one, don't worry. She, maybe, is just thinking about our accounting quiz or of her sole mistake in our last quiz. Trust me, she's not mad at you nor at anyone. LOL!
                My impression of this girl was that we can never get along. Her personality is kind'a strong and quite opposite to my low-profile attitude. But my perception had changed when we became seatmates last summer. At first, all I could say were "ah...", "bitaw noh", "as in?" to her stories. I didn't expect her to be that bubbly. But you know what? That's when our closeness began. I should thank her blabbiness for it attached a string between the two of us not only during the summer days but until now. 
                 Some may ask why did she become a person of my year despite the fact that she loves being the antagonist or the villain of almost everything I say (in a philosophical way). Well, that's the reason. I will never forget that once in my life, I encountered a specie like her. hahah! Even if sometimes I find it irritating, I'm happy having a person like her. Frank. Doesn't care what people say. Outrageous. Obnoxious. haha! Kidding! hmmm... She's actually one of the motivating factors why I study. I don't want her to feel sorry if I get too low scores. Pride isn't it? haha... I know she wouldn't be. I think of her as my role model when it comes to studying.
                 She  is, maybe, childish sometimes, but there's a part of her that makes me think that she's older than me. THAT'S WHY I LOOK UP TO HER.  ;)


I LOVE YOU GIRLS!!!!!


  •   VERWIN JOHN PACIS
     (Ang Gwapong Stalker "kuno")

          October 07, 2011 - the first time I got "ehem" at Pyesta. I'd thrown up, got wasted and blurted out the words unconsciously... and take note, I was able to converse in straight English! Lucky me though that I didn't put more shame on myself in that crowded place! Thanks to my savior, Verwin! Because of him, I was able to leave the area before I get too nauseated! haha! Shame on me.
              Well I didn't expect him to do that. Oh right! I texted him using the name of Gladys. How pathetic was that? haha! That text was actually for him and Karlo. Maybe because I was no more sober during that night, I just suddenly thought of declaring a dare for my two best friends. I wondered if they really cared enough for me and I'd like to see if who's ready enough to fetch me at that time of the night. But oops! My message to Karlo had failed and wasn't sent! Poor me. And so the text was only received by Verwin, who replied after an hour! Waaah! (Ssssh! Another reason why I texted him because he has a car! haha Kidding!)
                     You wanna know a trivia? Verwin and I might be best friends since Grade-2 but there's still this little barrier between us that disables us from sharing personal stuffs to each other. Well, I'm not comparing him to Karlo, but my bond with this guy is different. It's still vague to me why and how did we became best friends, actually! Maybe that's the exciting part about it... a mystery that binds us together until now. Verwin and I have somehow leveled-up our friendship this year. We had shared our love, life and angst stories. If last year was the hopeless one for the three of us, I guess, things had turned to be opposite this year. I just hope that this would continue. After all, we still stick around despite our differences and busy schedules. (yeah... busy) 
                      If there's something I love about Verwin, it's the fact that you will see him becoming a shoulder to cry on at the least moment you expect him to be. You know our friendship started with that cool attitude of him. Look at us until now. :)

I LOVE YOU NA LANG RIN VERWIN! HAHA

JOKE ULIT. I LOVE YOU BITAW WALAY JOKE!


          ONE OF THE CRAZIEST PERSONS I'D EVER MET ASIDE FROM MYSELF AND A! 
          At the first month of last semester, all I did was to listen to Jane's kwento of how Gladys became her friend and how Gladys becomes everyone's BEST FRIEND. And I was just like "really?" "wow!" "naks!" to all the beautiful things Jane were saying about her. I even thought that she's having a crush on her! (wahaha! Peace!) 
             Looking at Gladys before, I could say that I didn't see why Jane is so fond of her. We even live in the same subdivision since forever, and I hate it when I can't even remember a single memory of her when I was a kid. I used to pass by their house whenever I go to our rock-like Japanese base. I can't remember any! IKR! MY MEMORY SUCKS. But she said she knows me ever since. She even teased me to his kapitbahay - who happened to be my classmate - without me knowing.  
              So from there... this girl and I became groupmates in a graveyard shift and in a very torturing project, the Feasibility Study. We hanged out more often. And there I discovered the truth about everything Jane had said. There's something about this crazy girl that attracts everyone to get close to her without her giving so much effort. Her jolly personality gives you a hint of why you can be comfortable sharing things to her. Can you believe that even one of my best friends confide to her when in fact they just met two months ago?! And my mom would now allow me to go out and would not scold me anymore if I come home late only if they know that she's my companion. AMAZING RIGHT?! That's what we are talking about. 
            
            The thing is, you can be comfortable to tell her your story because one, she will listen... two, she won't ABSOLUTELY judge you even if what you did is wrong... and third, you're confident that what you share is safe with her. Well, I barely share my misfortunes in life. But with her, it seems just too easy to tell my drawbacks and experiences without worrying about any negative reactions from her. Maybe Gladys has hypnotism powers?! haha... 
              What I love about Gladys Mendoza is that we can enjoy each other's company without sticking to a specific topic. Or without saying a lot of words if possible. We just sing and be silly. WE LAUGH AT EACH OTHER'S EMBARRASSMENT (Yes! That's how brutal we are). We just make eye contacts and boom! Good luck to our VICTIM. HAHA! Honestly, she's more of an ate to me although she doesn't look and act like one. I only get too close to girls who are older than me or those who are of my age. And maybe that's why she and I are in good vibes. 
               Brutal as she can be, we are thankful that we have a friend like her. ;)

               I LOVE YOU GLADZ! :)


                  Karlo has one of the qualities that I look for in a guy. That is, making me laugh to death! haha! But don't get me wrong again. That's just one of the hundreds of reasons why he became my best friend. My relationship with him is opposite of what I and Verwin had. We are like the "PINAGBIAK NA ARINOLA". We always stick to each other which some people would think that we're a couple or that something special is going on between us. But we ain't and if ever there's something special between us, that's our FRIENDSHIP. ;)
                    Like a year ago, we barely see each other. I thought that our bonding will just stay in high school and remain inside the grounds of our Alma Mater. But then, things eventually changed this year! The good news is, because of our common interest, we return in each other's company. We now often go out. No idea how things went back to best times just like the old times. I'm so grateful that I am able to laugh with this guy again. Ok, I admit, I miss him. 
                  Karlo is also a very outspoken type person. What you see is what you get. But when it comes to real emotions, you still have to squeeze him so he would admit that he's hiding something. His personality is a "feeling close" type. You can easily jive with him even if you just met him 5 minutes ago. He has a wide array of connections ergo it's not difficult for him start a conversation with some stranger. I assume that's a talent.            
                                               
                       I love how Karlo cares for me. Even if he won't admit and tell it straight to my face. Tell him you need him, and he'll be there. Tell him that you'll treat him over lunch and he'll be there 100x faster! haha joke! We don't say that we like each other's attitude wholly. When I'm mad at him, I express it. Others would say that HE'S GAY, BUT HERE'S I CAN ASSURE YOU, HE'S NOT. I'm saying that not because of what he told me, but because I have faith on him.

                          I'M PRAYING THAT WE'LL BE BEST FRIENDS FOREVER AND EVER!

                          I LOVE YOU KARLO!


               So that's it! I'm done with introducing the best people I encountered during this year! You have no idea how thankful I am to meet such beautiful, handsome and loving friends and of course, a self-sacrificial Mama. I'm so blessed having these people in my life! I also thank God for giving me my other friends (who may not have been mentioned here) who didn't fail to show me their love and to bring out the best in me in everything that I do. This year has been good to me no matter how I perceived it as a SUCKING YEAR.

                  AM LOOKING FORWARD TO A MORE EXCITING AND MORE LIFE LESSONS NEXT YEAR!


                  SUPER THANK YOU AND I LOVE YOU LORD! :)

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